Aren't we all just in a big waiting room, awaiting our inevitable deaths? Have you ever looked around a waiting room? Some people make the most of it, making conversations, texting on thier cell phones, happily reading their out-dated magazines; while others nervously look at their watches, and squirm in their seats. What you do during the "wait" is entirely up to you. You can even choose to give up, and just go home if you want. Of course that action will completely insure that you are NEVER seen. I have been the one pacing and looking out the window; debating if the "wait" was worth it. Now, I'm in a different frame of mind. I truly want to be "seen", and I hope the wait lasts a very long time... Just another brilliant analogy from yours truly....